Was
there a bed? YES finally (I received a text around midday), except not in the
oncology (cancer) ward, four other young souls were also waiting for their
chemo. Four other sets of parents were waiting fretfully, restlessly for GOSH
to call to THEM, waiting for the call to tell them that there was a bed empty for
their child. Our daughter went in with my wife and I was left to get on with the
rest of the day, to stay focused. Food was almost forgotten, coffee was not.
Very late
in the afternoon I saw my son, he was in a fabulous mood, my in laws had made
sure of that!!! When they left it was my job (I am starting to understand what
it is like to a single working parent) to get him to bed, wash up, check his social
calendar for tomorrow, update friends, chat to my wife (Skype did not work properly
this time, I only caught a fleeting glimpse of my daughter) for no other reason
but to hear her voice and that of my daughters, put away the clothes, prepare
for tomorrow, chat again to my wife to find out how the chemo is going. Finally
I have stopped, not rest, just stop. I have perhaps 5-6 hours from now until it
starts all over again. And once again the family is apart.
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